I had two posts stacked up, ready to post…
Yeah, the important word in that sentence is the verb: had.
One of the benefits of getting ahead on posts, by the way, is that you gain the time and distance you need to read and honestly evaluate the material before you hit the “Publish” button. On review, both of those posts saw me hit the trash can icon rather than the button to post them.
One of those posts I kinda regret nuking, but only because it was basically harmless. It was, in all honesty, just an exploration of the meaning and impact of a couple of songs. Unfortunately it also wasn’t any more than that; it offered nothing new, nor anything particularly interesting for anyone but me.
That is the great danger of this kind of writing, by the way: the urge to devolve into internal monologues and self-absorption. It is all too easy to forget that even a blog has to have a point. Even a blog has to work to communicate something to its audience. A work that is nothing more than the stream-of-consciousness spouting of internal thoughts and feelings with no purpose is a diary,* not a blog.
*Or freaking “Prufrock”…but, then, I hate that damned poem. “Dare I eat a peach…” my ass. Harrumph! Those who love that poem, however, have a totally different opinion. YMMV.
One of those posts that I deleted, however, had a core that did have something to say…even if that core needed to be stripped of the bitter, half-drunk trappings with which it was surrounded. Now, what got me started on this particular post was re-reading that bit, while simultaneously thinking about a couple of discussions with some new friends…
Just like when I was living in Yellowstone, I find myself surrounded by — and socializing with — those who are significantly younger. That’s not entirely bad, to be honest. There is an energy and an honesty to youth that those of us who have weathered more of life’s shit can quite easily lose. I know I personally have lost quite a bit of that energy and hope. Unfortunately, youth also owns a callowness and naivety that can grate on your damned nerves…
One kid — 19 or 20, and dreaming of wealth and better things — talked about getting into “affiliate marketing” and “drop shipping”. Now, whether you go old school and call them pyramid schemes, or adopt fresh new terms, those things are still nothing more than vehicles to abuse the young and stupid. Sorry, Ethan, but that’s the truth…
Others with girlfriend/boyfriend troubles…
The loss of an apartment, and couch-surfing with friends and acquaintances…
When you get right down to it, the pure naive belief that the world makes sense, and that the universe is — of all life’s dirty words — “fair”…
I’m still utterly convinced that Dracula, and his particular brand of magic and mesmerization, is nothing more than an allegory for someone with decades of life and experience living among the young and naive. A deep, dark part of me — one that I don’t invite to parties — knows it could manipulate these “kids” into, well, pretty much anything. Experience can predict response; wisdom can guide impetus and action; cynicism can manipulate reaction…
God, I’m an evil bastard.*
*Errr…actually I’m a writer. Which amounts to the same thing, when you get right down to it. Who else but a serial killer or a writer would ever Google shit like “castration” and “eunuch” and actually read the damned results?!
“Why would you do that?” is the cry, of course. “Why would you ever abuse the naivety and inexperience of the young?”
Just wait until you are over forty, then go talk for a half-hour with someone who is less than half your age! You have two choices at that point: nostalgic memory for your own youth, or bitter cynicism at everything you have lost…
Shit, someone should write a story about that!
Wait, I think I might have that covered…
Okay, so someone should open a brewery where that can be written!
Ummm…well…I pretty much have that covered, too…
Shit…wait a damned second!
Did I just take away my last excuses for not producing my long-brewing fantasy series? Dammit!